Boyfriend still logs dating site
One had to do with how people discriminate based on age, and, by the time they get serious about dating in their early 40’s, often find that their options have become severely limited.(This was the main reason for Lori Gottlieb’s famous controversial “settling” article I am a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not.At singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men.
The same way that you might have to compromise by writing to women 37-41.
Now, I must point out something that is uncomfortable, Adam, which is that you may be entirely overrating yourself.
If this is the case (because we all like to think we’re attractive, smart, and secure), that might explain why you’re not getting results.
You can have a great, fulfilling life, but you will not find a partner unless you get really, really, really, lucky. And, no one is telling you to be desperate, to settle, to give up your dreams, or any such hooey. All I’m telling you is that every time I hear some woman tell me “there are no good guys out there,” I am reminded that there are millions of men like Adam.
But if you don’t take the time to let him in – because it’s simply easier to NOT let him in – both you (and Adam) are going to have a hard time finding each other. Finding a partner is a major part of someone’s life and happiness, yet I would bet if most people kept a log they could not say that they consistently spent at least 5 hours week on this task.